Lazy Monday morning.

I have already shared how my Sunday went...

Now I'd like to share with you how my Monday went. This is the first day of the week and I was too lazy to do anything since I felt deprived of rest over the weekend. Erick agreed to just spend the day watching DVD the entire day so we can get full rest. So, we had our breakfast... as soon as we finished eating breakfast, Erick dragged me to flying kite with Nyx since yesterday was an unsuccessful attempt. I live near Eternity Memorial Park in Cavite and its a good setting for flying kites. So, I agreed to go there after their pangungulit. Here's how the place looks like:

We usually go here in the mornings when we have the time to jog or exercise before hitting the gym. Nyx likes going here kasi it's like his playground. Anyway, we went kite flying nga and this time, it was so successful. Erick was so happy and Nyx was so thrilled too. Its not easy flying kites pala. Anyway, after some picture taking, I asked if we could go home na. I was complaining a lot kasi nga I still feel drained. So we headed home after about almost 2 hours of kite-flying. When we reached home, I immediately went upstairs, turned on the TV and laid back. I thought he already agreed na mag-relax lang for the rest of the day but he insisted to wash clothes (he washes his own clothes eversince, and I DONT! ). I was a bit pissed na kasi nga I wanna relax and chat with him on bed lang. But eventually, pinayagan ko na. Then after almost 3 hours, he's done. We watched TV  pero I was too sleepy na non so I wasn't in the mood na for anything. So I slept without giving in to his demands.

Brief Background: He wakes up 1 hour before I do kasi he needs time daw para magising diwa nya so he can process well sa work plus he drinks coffee/tea pa. So when he wakes me up, automatic, I take my bath, get dressed  and we leave for work na. He's getting upset especially when I "buzzer beat" going to work. My shift starts 11:00 and I want to be in the office "on the dot"! I dont want to stay idle while in the office and he hates that. He wants me to start going to work earlier than usual. Eh kanina, I woke up not in the mood na nga tas he was ranting pa na ang tagal ko kumilos. It even took me time to choose the clothes I want to wear at work. Naasar tuloy ako kasi I wanted to wear this cute polo pero I was pissed nung pinapakialaman nya pa how I want to wear it. Haaay! Guys talaga. We weren't talking while on our way to work, he was silent the entire time and I remained silent too.

Ganyan na lang kami mag-away ngayon. When our eyes met before we part ways, wala na kagad ung tampo and we were ok na kagad in an instant. He even asked for a quick kiss.  We have matured a lot in many ways and I'm glad we did. Unlike before na may nagwawalk out pa. Relationship also matures pala as time progresses.

I wont deny it naman na most of the time, I start the fight coz I argue a lot. I guess I have to learn how not to argue even when I think I'm right. In a relationship, its definitely important that we know how to "compromise". And one of the greatest lessons is: "wag salubungin ung galit ng partner mo"... It helps a lot in stengthening a relationship especially when you're just starting to build the foundation. ☺